Domestic Violence

In most immigrant cultures, including families from India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, and Nepal, family and societal expectations can sometimes silence victims, making them feel pressure to endure abuse for the sake of honor, family reputation, or marriage stability. Many are told to “adjust” or “keep the family together,” even at the cost of their well-being. Financial dependence, fear of social stigma, and lack of support from family or community can make it even harder to seek help.

However, abuse is never acceptable, even within marriage. No tradition or cultural belief should force you to suffer in silence. You have help and support, and your safety is our priority. Legal protections exist to help you break free, and you are not alone. You can speak to us in confidence, and we speak your language. If you feel unsafe, legal protections are available to restrict contact and prevent further harm.

Understanding Domestic Violence

Some common forms of abuse include:

• Physical violence: Hitting, choking, pushing, or threats of harm
• Emotional and psychological abuse—intimidation, manipulation, or control
• Sexual abuse Forced sexual contact, including marital sex without consent
• Financial abuse– Controlling finances or preventing access to money
• Stalking and harassment– In-person, through calls, texts, or social media

If you are a victim of Domestic Violence, you can get a Protective Order!

What is a Protective Order?

A Protective Order is a court order that legally restricts an abuser from contacting or harming you. In Virginia, there are three types of Protective Orders:

Emergency Protective Order (EPO)

• Why is an EPO issued?
  Issued immediately when there is an imminent danger of harm.
• How do I apply for an EPO?
  A police officer or magistrate can request it after an incident.
• How long does an EPO last?
  Lasts up to 72 hours or until the next court session.
• What does an EPO do?
  – Orders the abuser to stay away from you, your home, and workplace.
  – Prohibits contact (calls, texts, or third-party messages).
  – Can grant temporary child custody if necessary.

Preliminary Protective Order (PPO)

• Why is a PPO issued?
  If ongoing protection is needed after an Emergency Protective Order expires.
• How do I apply for a PPO?
  You must file a petition in court, and a judge may grant it without the abuser being present.
• How long does a PPO last?
  Lasts up to 15 days or until a full hearing is held.
• What does a PPO do?
  – Extends the protections of the Emergency Protective Order.
  – May include child custody, financial support, or firearm restrictions.

Permanent Protective Order (PO)

• Why is a PO issued?
  If long-term protection is necessary after a court hearing.
• How do I apply for a PO?
  A judge issues it after reviewing evidence and determining that continued protection is needed.
• How long does a PO last?
  Can last up to two years and may be renewed if needed.
• What does a PO do?
  – Provides long-term protection from abuse.
  – May include child support, supervised visitation, or financial assistance.
  – Violating this order can result in criminal charges or jail time

Temporary Restraining Order (TRO)

• Why is a TRO issued?
  Provides temporary protection against harassment, threats, or harm in civil matters.
• How do I apply for a TRO?
  You must file a petition in court requesting protection.
• How long does a TRO last?
  Typically lasts 14 days or until a full court hearing.
• What does a TRO do?
  – Prohibits further harassment, threats, or harmful actions.
  – May require the aggressor to stay away from you or cease specific behaviors.

How to Get a Protective Order in Virginia

1. Seek Immediate Help
   – Call 911 if you are in immediate danger.
   – If law enforcement is involved, they can request an Emergency Protective Order on your behalf.
2.  File a Petition for a Protective Order
   – Visit the Juvenile & Domestic Relations District Court or General District Court (if the abuser is not a household or family member).
   – Ask for and complete a Protective Order petition.
   – A judge may issue a preliminary protective order the same day.
3.  Attend a Court Hearing
   – You will need to present your case before a judge.
   – Bring evidence of abuse (texts, emails, medical records, photos, police reports).
   – The judge will decide whether to issue a Permanent Protective Order.
4. Enforce the Order
   – Keep a copy with you at all times.
   – Provide copies to your workplace, school, or law enforcement.
   – If the abuser violates the order, call 911 immediately—they can be arrested.

What Happens if an Abuser Violates a Protective Order?

• Call 911
• Law enforcement can arrest the violator.
• Violating a Protective Orderis a criminal offense and can result in fines or jail time.

State and National Resources for Domestic Violence & Human Trafficking Survivors

• Virginia Statewide Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-838-8238
• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 or text “START” to 88788
• National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888 or text “HELP” to 233733 (BEFREE)
• Virginia Housing Crisis Line: 1-833-663-8428

If you or a loved one needs protection, seek legal assistance immediately. 

Contact us for a confidential consultation. You are not alone. Help is available.